Where are all the good men dead? In the heart? Or in the head?

The title poses an interesting question. Of course, as with any question that takes some thought, there's the question that is directly posed to you and the one that is indirectly posed. The one I see indirectly posed is "Why can't we have it all?". Because some men, as the question states, are dead in the head, but good in the heart, while others are good in the head, but rather lacking in the coronary department. You either get one or the other with the vast majority of guys. When you find one that's all there in the head, and all there in the heart, hang on to him. Don't let him go. Because those guys are one in a million and don't come around everyday. But, be wary of those who appear to have both, but are really only posturing until they have gotten what they wanted from you and then drop the entire front. Those men are luckily not as common as we generally perceive them to be, because you have to first be good in the head (and I think we all know most guys aren't all there in the intellectual department).


Another note about those few good men who are both there in the head and in the heart: they're probably not going to be easy to obtain. They will either already have a girlfriend, live too far away for any form of relationship other than friendship to be realistic, or the age difference will creep you out. Within the first two cases: wait it out for awhile. Things will either work out or they won't. With the last one: you either have to become morally flexible or just abandon the cause all together.

Welll.....that's all I have time to ramble on for now. I'll probably edited this late.

peace out